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A Backstabber or Backbone

Are you supportive to those around you? Do your friends really matter? Be a backbone to those who needs your assistance. Most of your friends are not interest if your financial support but all the need from you are words of encouragements to trigger their spirits to actualize their goal and to be a backstabber. Many are looking up to you as well as learning from you, don't feel less concern the but show them that you are and don't criticize their present conditions . 💕 them as you love yourself.

THINK TWICE BEFORE ACTING

    Some of us, in some situations act immediately when faced with problems or challenges. Sometimes we argue or enter into a fight with our friends or people without considering/seeing things in their own direction/position.     I read a story about two classmates Felix and Philip, who got into an argument. They were called to explain why they started the argument, Felix was convinced that “he” was right and Philip was wrong and Philip in the other hand was just as convinced that “he” was right and “Felix” wrong. The teacher decided to teach them a very important lesson.     She brought them up to the front of the class and placed Felix on one side of her desk and Philip on the other side. In the middle, she placed a large, round object. She asked Felix the colour of the object, Felix without hesitating said “black”, then the teacher turned to Philip and asked the same question. “it is white” Philip replied. Another argument started betw...

PREPARE FIRST, BEFORE A START

    Preparation is one of the essential rules in life, it is as well related to the pattern in which an event is arranged before the kick off. Preparation is seen in all aspect of life and these include; preparing for a party, wedding, travel and many more. Forgotten?,  Even for the birth of a baby, the pregnant mother must prepare for complete 9months in other to get the baby ready to be born.     To you now, how prepare are you? Do you just decide on something and start acting on it? Do you really need preparations for these decisions? Don’t be someone that have a lot of ideas but you keep them wasting without making preparations for them or you start acting on the without proper or any preparation. First, before kicking off ideas, there are questions you needed to ask yourself. I.What are my ideas? II.Do I really have these ideas as better ones? Or I really have what it takes to accomplish these ideas? If yes, III.Where can I start prepar...

THE UNIVERSAL BANK ACCOUNT

    Do you have a bank account? If yes, do you have any penny left in it? Think of when you have a universal account and every morning your account is credited with $86,400 but carries over no balance from day to day, never let you keep any cash balance. In every one hour it debits $3600 and every evening takes whatever part of the amount you had failed to use during the day.     If you found yourself having such universal account, what would you do? I know you will like to draw out every pence. Of course! That’s what everyone will do, so that it will not be withdrawn. But this will not be possible because it is a bank without Automated Teller Machine (ATM) or debit slip, everyone has such bank as far as life exists. The name of this bank is called “ TIME ”.     Every morning, it credits you with 86,400 seconds. Every night it write off, as lost, whatever of this you failed to invest to good purpose. It carries over no bal...

DISCOVER YOUR FEARS AND ELIMINATE THEM

   We all have fears as a human begin, fear of the unknown, fear of losing people, health, wealth, firm, and most especially the fear of failure. All this fears goes a long way to deter us, it can as well hinder or destroy our lives totally.     Most people are afraid of failing, they only want to become a success all the time, they thought that when they fail, that's the end of the world or their career in education or business. But know this,  If you don’t fail in life, you will never know where your faults or errors are coming from, and will never learn to correct them. To make mistakes or fail in life is an opportunity for you to correct some things in your life. Come to think of it,  many of our noble and prominent men in the world today, fail countless times to become successful in life. Someone like Ben Carson and many other. This people witnessed failure and were able to correct the errors that made them to fail.     I wa...

Read Your Associations

     As they always say,  the people/friends around you determines who you are. The people in your life or around you has three(3) things to do in your life. They either increase you, decrease you or neutralize you. This is why you need to be careful about your association/relationship with people (mind you, that does not mean you should hate them or run away from them). Having relationship with wrong people destroys your capability,  destroys your future. This is because when wrong people leave your life, wrong things stop happening,  when unwanted people leave your life, unwanted things stop happening and what you need to do about them is letting them out of your life. When you let them go,  your life will be free again.     God commanded us to love everybody, love is a must but relationship and association with people is by choice, it is a decision you make for yourself. Some people will stand to say,  “de...

CANDLE-------YOU

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When you always feel dejected or ignored, always think about the candle,  when it is on, the wind try all  it could to quench it but no matter how small the light can be. It has an enduring power to withstand the troubles of the wind.  You are made with a potential greater than the candle, you excel in life,  you'll always perfect the best.